Welcome to my blog—a space for ambitious, heart-led women (and anyone charting their own path) to find real talk, reflection, and resources for navigating life’s big transitions. Whether you’re pivoting careers, wrestling with imposter syndrome, redefining success, or learning to let go of what no longer serves you, you’ll find stories, strategies, and soul-centered encouragement here. Drawing from my journey as a first-gen professional, law school graduate, founder, and faith-filled dreamer, these posts are here to remind you: you’re not alone, and you’re already more resilient than you know.
God Told Me to Let Go—And I Was Scared
There’s a moment that can be harder than failure.
It’s the moment when God says, “Let go.”
How to Navigate a Career Transition (Without Losing Yourself in the Process)
Navigating career transitions can be challenging for first-generation professionals. Whether you’re shifting industries or seeking new roles, having a roadmap can make the process smoother. Learn how to assess your current situation, upgrade your skills, build a support network, and apply strategically to achieve your career goals. Embrace these steps to navigate your career transition with confidence and success.
How to Balance Work and Life as a First-Generation Professional
Balancing work and life as a first-generation professional can be challenging, but it's essential for long-term success and well-being. Learn how to set clear boundaries, prioritize self-care, and manage your time effectively. Discover strategies for saying no, communicating with your employer and loved ones, and making time for personal growth. With these tips, you can achieve a healthy work-life balance and thrive both professionally and personally.
Effective Networking Strategies for First-Generation College Graduates
Building a successful career as a first-generation college graduate and young woman in your 20s requires more than just hard work—it requires effective networking. Networking can open doors to opportunities you might not even know existed. Learn from my personal experiences and strategies on how to put yourself in the right spaces, connect with intention, and build lasting professional relationships. Discover the power of being a good conversationalist, listening intently, giving more than you take, and staying genuine in your interactions. Let my story of mentorship and ongoing connections guide you in navigating your professional journey with confidence.
The Importance of Mentorship for First-Generation Professionals
Navigating the professional world as a first-generation college graduate and young woman in your 20s can be daunting. Without the guidance of family members or community ties to those in your chosen field, understanding the nuances and overcoming obstacles can feel overwhelming. This is where mentorship plays a critical role. From providing invaluable guidance and emotional support to opening doors for networking opportunities, mentors can significantly impact your career trajectory. Learn why finding a mentor is essential and how to connect with the right one to guide your journey.
Navigate Financial Planning: Learn When and How to Seek Advice from Financial Experts
Financial planning is crucial for women of color and first-generation graduates, who often face unique financial challenges. Without guidance from family members, it's easy to make costly mistakes. Recently, my partner Richard and I started using Fruitful for financial planning, and it's been incredibly helpful. Learn when and how to seek advice from financial experts to manage your finances effectively, from starting a new job to handling medical expenses and supporting family members.
You Must Be Grounded Before You Can Grow
The past few weeks, or really the past few months if I'm going to be honest with you, I have been stressed out of my mind. I have never really experienced this level of stress, and I've done a lot of stressful things in my life. But I can easily say that this season of my life was one of the most stressful seasons of my life. However, If I can just remember that and remember that truly great things are truly hard things, then even though it won't necessarily make things less scary, it will give me the confidence to know that there is light on the other side and that God has a plan that’s even bigger than my plan.
The Importance of Setting SMART Goals for First-Gen Women in Their 20s
Graduating from college is a monumental achievement, especially for first-generation college graduates. Setting SMART goals—Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, and Time-bound—can help you navigate the professional world with confidence. Embrace your unique journey, start with specific and actionable goals, and watch your dreams turn into reality.
Top 10 Career Tips for First-Generation College Graduates
Graduating from college as a first-generation student is a significant achievement. As you step into the professional world, these top 10 career tips will help you thrive. From embracing your unique journey to building a strong network and mastering financial literacy, these strategies are designed to support your success and ensure you feel seen and heard.
Define Your Why: Unlock Motivation and Direction in Your Career and Education
Understanding your "why" is essential for building a fulfilling career and educational journey. As a first-generation college graduate and woman of color, clarifying your motivations can guide you through challenges and keep you inspired. Learn how to reflect on your personal journey, set purpose-driven goals, and stay true to your values to achieve long-term success and fulfillment.